Ein Artikel, der eine gewisse Aufmerksamkeit im Netz erhalten hat ist „The Dangerous Rise Of Men Who Won’t Date “Woke” Women“
Aus dem Inhalt:
Not wanting to date „woke“ women, far from being laughable, is actually one of the more insidious aspects of it. Spend an afternoon on any major dating app and you’ll come across (generally white) men saying openly sexist and misogynistic things. They might say „no psychos“ or that they „fucking hate big eyebrows“ in their bios. And, by and large, they also tend to hold extremely right-wing views and see themselves as victims of liberal thinking.
In fact, as I was writing this, a dear friend sent me a screenshot of a guy she’s just matched with who describes Jordan B Peterson as his „dream dinner guest“. Yes, the same Jordan B Peterson who thinks that white privilege is a „Marxist lie“ and wants millennials to drop their obsession with „social justice“.
I, meanwhile, recently had to block someone who after matching with me launched into a vile rant about how women are „evil“, „only want sex“ and treat men as though they are „disposable“. When I asked him if he hated women he replied that he had „only moderate disdain“ for us before asking me whether I didn’t want to date him because I’m actually „pretty rough“.
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The reactionary influence of these ideas doesn’t stop at dating, though. As the campaign group Hope Not Hate reported last year, a hostility towards feminism is feeding directly into far-right movements online. They found that a third of young British people today believe that feminism is marginalising or demonising men and warned that these beliefs were a „slip road“ to other far-right ideas.
Mir fällt allerdings auch kein Grund ein ein Woke Frau als Partnerin in Betracht zu ziehen.
Was soll dabei positives herauskommen.
Und die untere Zeile ist wie eine Kommentatorin anmerkt, in der Tat ein Beispiel dafür, wie wenig die Autorin reflektiert:
I’m extremely concerned at the lack of self-reflection in this article:
„As the campaign group Hope Not Hate reported last year, a hostility towards feminism is feeding directly into far-right movements online. They found that a third of young British people today believe that feminism is marginalising or demonising men and warned that these beliefs were a „slip road“ to other far-right ideas.“
I look at this statistic in two ways:
1) Is our movement marginalising or demonising men? What are the ways we are doing this and what is the impact of this?
2) If we aren’t demonising men, then something about the way we are communicating our message is not clear to the audience. Let’s improve the way we communicate.
Das wäre in der Tat mal eine wesentlich interessantere Idee. Aber die typische radikale intersektionale Feministin würde dazu wohl sagen: Es ist nicht meine Aufgabe Männer zu belehren, warum der Feminismus richtig ist, schon gar nicht gegenüber Männern
Ein anderer Kommentar:
So everyone who isn’t an SJW/Has no idea what all the Tumblr buzzwords are, is ‚far right‘? Don’t overthink this. People in general don’t want to spend their time in a relationship walking on egg shells, or hearing shrill, scolding shrieking every time they say or do anything. No one wants to do that anywhere, let alone in their own home with someone who is supposed to be their partner.
und ein weiterer Kommentar:
It’s one thing to advocate for legal equality, social respect, and all-around fair treatment. No problem with that whatsoever. It’s quite another to become yammering, obnoxious, grating, lecturing fools. I can apply this directly to my own „LGBT“ tribe. I am 62 years old and have seen a truly vast improvement in both the legal and social climate. It’s truly night and day compared to what it was 45 years ago when I was coming to grips with all of it. These days, my tribe includes a minority with a minority who will not take „Yes“ for an answer. These people seem to thrive on victimhood that is now a faint shadow of what it once was. Yes, it’s a big country, and bad things happen. But those are now outliers and not cause to go on a jihad against our hetero brethren. Acknowledge the overall victories and then do what those activists were always fighting for: Live your life. You cannot force people to love, celebrate, or even like you. As long as you have your liberty and enough social respect to get by, you are ahead of the game. Society is not your enemy, yet like nature itself, it’s not necessarily your friend. Society cannot provide happiness, success, or personal fulfillment, and on a personal level you cannot hector your way into those things. Harsh, I suppose, but also true. People need to grow up and take responsibility for themselves.
Ich würde ihr vielleicht zustimmen, dass die Aussage, dass man keine woken Frauen datet im Profil mir auch eher als Red Flag erscheinen würde, wenn mich eine Freundin fragen würde, was ich von dem Profil halte. Einfach weil es eine zu starke Betonung ist für meinen Geschmack.
Der Fairness halber hier ein Auszug aus einem Artikel, der erläutert, warum es vorteilhaft ist woke Frauen zu daten:
1. We will get turned on (not off) by your emotions
Elite singles conducted a survey and found that 95% of women answered ‘yes’ to the question ‘do you think women prefer men who are open with their emotions?’ whereas only 84% of men answered the same way. Therefore, it could be said that woke women are 95% more likely to find sensitive men more attractive than women who prescribe to patriarchal ideals.
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Das ist aus meiner Sicht eine sehr unvollständige Aussage dessen, was Frauen interessant finden.
Gegen Emotionen ist grundsätzlich nicht zu sagen. Nur eben zur richtigen Zeit und ohne das der andere als Weichei rüber kommt.
2. You will have the best orgasms of your life
According to many men, prostate orgasms are said to be the god-tier of male orgasms. They are said to feel similar to penile orgasms but a lot more intense and felt through the entire body. Through porn, I know that they are achievable via hands-free stimulation. I believe that all people with a prostate should try it, but as with all things, the patriarchy has done quite a number on us.
Also die Ankündigung, dass woke Frauen nichts auf Geschlechterrollen geben und insofern eher einen Prostataorgasmus bewirken werden. Wäre interessant ob das so wäre, ich bin etwas mißtrauisch. Aber ansonsten reicht eigentlich eine Erklärung über die Prostata und ihre Stimulation ebenfalls häufig aus.
3. She will push you to success
As the saying goes, ‘Behind every great man there’s a great woman’. Now imagine the power a couple has when they’re stood side by side as equals, supporting each other and sharing the load.
I think it is important to date your equal because instead of having to pick up the slack, you can concentrate on building each other up instead. This isn’t to say women who aren’t woke are unsuccessful, they are. But as I said above, the likelihood is they won’t expect you to be strong all the time, which can do wonders for productivity and preventing burnout.
Das klingt etwas bizarr. Weit eher wird sie dir vorhalten, dass du erfolgreich bist, weil du ein Mann bist und sie nicht, weil sie eine Frau ist. Und dir etwas über Privilegien erzählen.
4. You will save money
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On all social media platforms, you are bound to come across at least one post where a man will complain about having to pay for dates. The thing is with most woke women; we won’t expect you to be the sole breadwinner or expect you to shower us — we can do that to ourselves.
I prefer paying for myself because it allows me more freedom on dates — I can get the most expensive meal on the menu because I want to. I like being treated just as much as any person; however, there is no expectation for it to be a regular occurrence. To me, it means more when it happens out of the blue.
I am sure I am not alone in this, so you can believe that dating us is a cost-effective investment for a more fruitful future. Plus the likelihood is that she’ll be bringing home a lot of money too — a win-win.
Männer meinen häufig sie müssten so viel ausgeben. Dabei ist das nach meiner Erfahrung gar nicht erforderlich.
5. She will make you a better man
I believe empathy is the key to many of our problems, whether they be societal or personal. As much as empathy is innate, I also think it is a skill that needs to be practised on the regular. As we have seen time and time again through history, it is a lot easier to hate and fear what you don’t understand. It is challenging to be empathetic to issues that don’t concern or affect you because they don’t feel real.
Dating a woke woman is a sure-fire way of becoming a better person. They will have you practising empathy regularly and caring for people and situations you had no idea where real. (…)
Man sollte schon nie eine Frau daten, die meint, dass Männer nicht von sich aus zur Empathie in der Lage sind.
Merkwürdig, dass ihr das gar nicht auffällt. Würde eine weiße Frau in „Warum Schwarze mich daten sollten“ anführen, dass sie von ihnen endlich lernen könnte, „Geld durch Arbeit und nicht mehr durch Straftaten zu erhalten“ dann würde der Rassismus sofort auffallen. Aber klar, wenn man aufgrund seine Idologie denkt, dass Männer zu Empathie nicht in der Lage sind, dann erscheint das als Argument.
Alles Evolution 