Selbermach Mittwoch 134 (18.10.2017)

Ereignisreiche Wochen zu Geschlechterthemen. Was beschäftigt euch gegenwärtig?

#MeToo und #HowIwillchange

In Reaktion auf Weinstein lief gestern auf Twitter eine internationale Version des Aufschreis, #metoo

Zu #MeToo: ich stell mal die These auf, dass es keine Frau gibt, die noch nie sexuell belästigt worden ist.

— Birgit Riegler (@Birgit_Riegler) October 16, 2017

"Wenn dir das wirklich passiert ist, warum hast du keine Anzeige erstattet?" – Vielleicht weil einem generell nicht geglaubt wird. #metoo

— Fuchsmädchen (@fernwehliebe) October 17, 2017

I just saw this and a man commented "I'm disgusted with you angry feminists seeking revenge" … And Wtf man? #MeToo pic.twitter.com/sjUKgLDCnh

— Séverine Pruny (@PrunySev) October 17, 2017

Wenn wir die Augen schließen und "Lalala, stimmt gar nicht!" rufen, dann gibt es keinen Sexismus. Jede Debatte über Sexismus. Immer.#MeToo

— Pinkstinks.de (@pinkstinksde) October 17, 2017

Ich wollte #metoo schreiben und denke gleichzeitig, "zählen die paar mal begrapschen auch schon"?! Patriarchy fucking with my brain!

— Schifteh Hashemi (@schifteh) October 16, 2017

When a woman talks about abuse &/ harassment, there are 3 guaranteed reactions:
– Not all men!
– What about the men!
– That's a lie!#MeToo

— Mme Klara (@MmeCoquelicot) October 17, 2017

Männer wurden aufgefordert, öffentlich Besserung zu geloben ode ihre Taten einzugestehen:

Where’s the confessional hashtag for men to admit they know which of their buddies have committed assault.

— Mandy Brown (@aworkinglibrary) October 16, 2017

I want to see the hashtag from men, admitting to doing nothing during sexist jokes, harassment, and/or assault and VOWING to do better.

— Jenn Turner (@jennwrites) October 16, 2017

Schon war auch der Hashtag #Howiwillchange geboren:

#HowIWillChange I will take a more active role in smashing rape culture in my community without fear of being called a "snitch" or "pussy"

— Grant Knepper (@GrantKnepper2) October 17, 2017

#HowIWillChange: I will listen to women more closely, seeking to understand before seeking to be understood. Then, if it helps, I will act. https://t.co/LF4cjbJHwe

— Andrew Webster (@web_stirs) October 16, 2017

#HowIWillChange I will keep showing my 3 sons and one grandson how to honor & respect women.

Guys – meaningful change starts in the home.

— Jesse T. Smith (@JSmith4Congress) October 17, 2017

#HowIWillChange means sacrificing some of my own social capital so that male-centric spaces in which I am safe are also safe for women

— biryani brah (@garliquorice) October 16, 2017

#HowIWillChange: I'll do all this without expecting to be congratulated or praised since women do the heavy lifting every other fucking day.

— Benjamin Law 🌈 (@mrbenjaminlaw) October 16, 2017

#HowIWillChange means acknowledging the socialisation of ALL men into cruelty and entitlement, whether we individually act on it or not

— biryani brah (@garliquorice) October 16, 2017

Aber natürlich rief das auch Gegenstimmen auf den Plan:

#HowIWillChange?
Why the fuck should I change?

I've done nothing wrong.

I'm not a representation of my gender.

I'm perfect just how I am.

— Sky'oween (@PlagueJesterSky) October 17, 2017

#HowIWillChange I will spend more time assuring men that they do not need to feel guilty for the fact that bad people exist in their gender

— Spoopyfeesh (@jellifishbubgum) October 17, 2017

Mich nicht mehr vom Täter/Opferkult beinflussen lassen und Frauen als selbständige und starke Menschen erkennen! #HowIWillChange

— Onkel Harrowmaster (@Natasnoctem) October 17, 2017

People who already aren't rapists are going to be even less rapist!

— Ashurdur (@ashurdur) October 17, 2017

I will virtue signal about women being raped, as if only women are raped and as if I am somehow responsible because penis. #HowIWillChange

— Rae (@snowleprosy) October 17, 2017