Pornos auf dem Computer des Sohnes

Pornographie ware hier ja schon häufiger Thema:

• Pornographie und Erwartungen an die Attraktivität
• Frauen und Pornos
• Pornos und Vergewaltigung
• Pornografie und Sexualverbrechen
• Pornokonsum, Testosteron und Wahlerfolg
• Pornographie und Evolution

Jetzt macht ein Text eines Vaters, der Pornos auf dem Computer seines Sohnes fand, die zu einem heftigen Virenbefall geführt hatten, gerade die Runde (via)

My son got that MoneyPak/FBI scamware on his computer the day before yesterday and couldn’t get it off so he asked me for help. I removed it but when I was looking at his history in Google Chrome to see what had caused it there wasn’t any sites there that weren’t safe. I checked Internet Explorer just in case and there it was. Tons of porn.

I wrote this in Word and left it on his computer for him to see when he gets home. He get embarrassed super easily so I don’t wanna make it too hard on him. I typed this up and left it on his computer. He won’t be home for another 3.5 hours. Is this the right thing to do or what?

I want to start out by saying that I love ya and I’m not trying to embarrass you. Before you do anything else click the star in the upper right hand corner of internet explorer which is already pulled up and then click back on the icon to the right of the skype symbol in your toolbar to pull this page back up. —————————————> That history is the reason that you got that scamware and all the other crap on your computer. I want to tell you that it’s ok. Listen, I was 13 once too and it wasn’t so long ago that I don’t remember. I’m not mad or anything. It’s life and I did it too. I just want you to know that most of those sites are places that can and will ruin your computer. You were actually lucky that it only did what it did. There are viruses and other scamware that can completly ruin a computer and I can’t afford to buy you another 1800 dollar machine because you went to a site that fried it.

There are sites that are completely safe and you can go on them and not have your computer turned into a piece of junk. You can go to these sites and not screw up your computer. Don’t click on any links taking you to other sites and please only go to these. Ninty percent of porn sites have crap that can brick a computer.

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Listen, I won’t tell your mom and I’m not gonna make a big deal out of this. In fact I’m not gonna make any size deal out of it. If you don’t wanna talk about it that’s fine and I completely understand. I’ve been on this earth three times as long as you and there’s nothing you have done or will do that I haven’t done before. If you want to completely ignore this ever happened then I can and will do that too. Please don’t act awkward around me because of this. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. I just can’t have an 1800 dollar machine turned into a brick because you haven’t learned where to go on the internet. I’m not going to put a child lock on your computer or punish you in any way because as I said you did nothing wrong. I would like you to not be back here so much though. You literally spend all of your time back here. I’d like to see you more often. I like doing stuff with you and miss it.

I love you and I couldn’t be more proud of you.

Ich finde den Text gar nicht so schlecht. Von Pornos verhalten kann man ihn eh nicht. Aber so weiß er wenigstens, wo er hin kann, ohne zuviel Viren anzuziehen. Vielleicht etwas lang, ein kurzer Verweis darauf, dass es virenfreie Seiten gibt, deren Adressen und ein „Hab Spass“ hätte vielleicht auch gereicht, aber so ist es vielleicht klarer, dass es okay ist und er sich seiner Sexualität nicht schämen muss.